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Any Woman Can Become a Modern Goddess and Attract Good Things With Ease
The Great Goddess may be an ancient echo in the collective
unconscious of the human race, but her legacy still lives in every
woman. Today's woman is rediscovering her inherent female strengths and creating a new model of feminine power: the "Modern Goddess." The 20th
century ushered in the modern era of more freedom and more rights for
women. Another big push came in the 1960's and 1970's with the
"Women's Liberation" movement, which helped to open up more
opportunities for women to work in previously male-dominated fields.
We focused so intently on getting money and position and things
that we lost sight of what it really means to be female. We forgot
that men are meant to serve us. We forgot how to be gracious and
serene. That is why, now that we have entered the 21st century and the
next millennium, it's time for us to take another leap forward and become
proud examples of the truly Modern Goddess. Cultivating the proper
Goddess attitude naturally attracts good into your life. Struggle
becomes a thing of the past. With the right attitude you can harness the
flow of good that is your god-given right and ride it gracefully toward
your desires. The Four Pillars
The Four Pillars of the Modern Goddess are the foundation on which
your new life is built. As you create and cultivate the Four Pillars in
yourself, your life begins to move and change in magical and
mysterious ways. To be a woman is to be an earthbound vessel for
the unseen power that is the true nature of our reality. That power is
meant to be honored and cherished, as is every woman on this
planet. The Four Pillars give us some simple guidelines for
remembering how beautiful and special each one of us is.
Pillar I: Never Rush.
A Goddess has time for everything that is important to her. She stays
calm and relaxed. If you are stressed out and harried, stop and
take a deep breath. You always have all the time you need if you
believe you do. Learn how to say no. Don't over-commit
yourself. Live life at your own pace.
Pillar II: Never Worry.
A Goddess knows that she always has everything she needs. Worry is needlessly borrowing trouble from the future. She knows
that things always have a way of working themselves out if we allow
them to. She has a deep and abiding faith that God is her
source and she always has enough.
Pillar III: Receive Graciously.
A Goddess graciously receives all gifts and compliments
with a simple, "thank you." She never belittles or criticizes herself or her
accomplishments. When someone wants to give you something or help
you, accept the gift with a smile. A Goddess always remembers
that allowing men to assist and serve her is the gift she gives to them.
Pillar IV: Appreciate Continually.
Accept and appreciate all the good that comes to you, especially the little things. Whatever you appreciate increases. Make it a habit
to say, "how usual!" whenever something good happens to you. The
more you express your gratitude, the more good the universe
sends your way.
How Usual
Most people react to something good happening to them as an out-
of-the-ordinary event. How often have you said, "I don't believe it!" or,
"that's amazing!" when you receive a delightful surprise. Words and
thoughts have great power, so if your words convey to the
universe that this is an unusual occurrence, it will comply. Your
subconscious will make sure that "it's amazing" that anything good ever
happens to you.
In our house we have adopted a more positive way of
responding. My husband and I love to exclaim (often in unison),
"how usual!" whenever something good happens to either of us
whether it is a parking spot, a good news phone call, or a nice fat check
in the mail. Receiving good is "how usual" in our life because we are in
the habit of mentally creating it. Why not get into the "how usual!" habit
yourself. Let the universe know that receiving good is a regular,
everyday thing for you, too. "How usual!"
Today these Four Pillars are the foundation of my everyday life.
They are all ingrained in me as habits of thinking and action.
Not only do they make daily living a joy, they also make it possible to
attract a great man who thinks the same way. It should be no surprise to
you that my husband has these very same habits and beliefs. You, too,
can attract wonderful people and good things into your life by
adopting the Four Pillars as your own. Barbara Wright Abernathy helps take-charge women become as
successful at love as they are at work. She's the author of Venus On
Top: Women Who Are Born to Lead and the Men Who Love Them.
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